If you said yes to being a bridesmaid but have never been one before, you may be wondering, what exactly did you just say yes to?
Don’t worry. We’ve got all the details, and are treating you to a behind the scenes look of what’s in store for you on the bride’s big day.
Help Set Up the Venue
During the rehearsal dinner, you may be able to set up some of the venue. If not, you’ll be shown where everything is: ceremony space, kitchen, restrooms, where the band’s going to set up, the chairs are kept, etc.
The bride or wedding planner will likely give you and the other bridesmaids a run-down of what time you need to arrive at the venue on the day of.
That way, when you arrive on the wedding day, you can assist with getting everything just right. Direct the vendors where they need to go, and generally be there to lend a helping hand.
Help the Bride Get Ready
Once the venue is all set, it’s time for you to get ready. You’ll help the bride into her dress, buttoning up the gorgeous delicate pearl buttons that start at her neck and travel the length of her spine.
You’ll be on hand to fetch her a bottle of water and a wedge of cheese and some apple slices—or whatever she needs.
You and the other bridesmaids will get ready as well, slipping into your gorgeous Bella Bridesmaid dresses, before settling down to have hair and makeup done.
Offer Moral Support
The bride may be a bundle of nerves and as a bridesmaid it’s your duty to listen to her and reassure her everything is going to be fine—no, not fine, perfect.
The venue is immaculate. The tables look beautiful—the whole space is adorned with flowers—but the bride is the most gorgeous of all.
Remind her that today is a celebration of love. A commitment made in love: that is the most important part of the day. Everything else pales in comparison.
Assure her that if something were to come up, you’ll handle it. No sweat.
Assist the Bride
Depending on the intricacies of the bride’s dress, you may have to assist her when it comes to various movement-related things, and yes. Helping out in the restroom may be one of them.
Keep an eye on her. If her lipstick needs a touch up, let her know.
Make sure she’s staying hydrated too, and has something in her belly before walking down the aisle.
Errands and Logistical Support
What, no hairspray? And the maid of honor has cramps? No problem. You hop into the car, and drive 20-minutes to the nearest drug store, grabbing the bride a tin of breath mints while you’re there—you know she’ll appreciate it.
You may also be tasked with keeping track with the brides’ vows, and generally providing assistance to ensure everything goes according to schedule.
The Ceremony
The moment has finally arrived! The music swells, and the guests crane their necks, hoping to catch a glimpse of what’s to come. You give the bride’s arm a squeeze, it’s time, you got this! Before pairing up with your groomsman partner, and starting down the aisle.
Once the rest of the wedding party has made their way to the altar, she appears.
It’s time, she’s got this. You do your best to blink back tears.
Wedding Photos
After the ceremony it’s time for photos—though some brides may opt for photos to be taken at different times to take advantage of the light. During the photo sessions, just listen to the wedding photographer and follow their directions.
Your bridesmaid dress is undoubtedly gorgeous, so embrace how beautiful you look and feel. Now’s the perfect time to allow the day’s happiness to shine through your smile. With the ideal wedding attire and accessories (check out some dresses here), the pictures will turn out beautifully.
The Reception
There may be specific tasks assigned to you, such as helping direct guests to their table or quickly putting away folding chairs post-ceremony. Be sure you listen to instructions so you’re clear what’s expected.
During the reception, you may be asked to give a speech—hopefully this is something the bride let you know about before the wedding so you had a chance to prepare.
Another important move as a bridesmaid is to descend on the dancefloor. Liven it up, and encourage other wedding guests to let loose and have fun!
End of Night Cleanup
Lastly, you’re there after the guests leave and the bright lights come on to assist with cleanup and packing everything away. If the bride and groom have already made their grand exit, be sure to pack up anything she left behind in the bridal suite.
Conclusion:
There you have it, mystery revealed. As you can see your main role as a bridesmaid on the wedding day is to be there providing encouragement and support, and lending a helping hand.